August 29, 2005

 empty nest

ray is gone. he's in florida, visiting his family. he'll be back in 10 days.

he left saturday morning, and --truth be told-- i found myself really looking forward to having the house to myself for a while.

well, that feeling lasted all of 8 hours. saturday night, after the gaggle of women left the backyard pool party, the house started to feel really empty. at bedtime it felt strange locking up, all alone inside.

in his absence i hear no humming from the next room, no laughing. it seems very quiet. ray does a lot of work around the house, too, and now that i have to do it myself i'm really missing him -- a real whole super lot. cat-care, dishes, trash, bathroom-cleaning... it's kind of overwhelming.

but having friends over for a dip in the pool makes me feel less lonely. floating under the stars, gossiping and giggling with pals... it's just great.

the hidden message here is that you should come over for a swim soon, if you fancy that sort of thing. i promise i won't make you help me scoop the litter box or clean the toilet.

Posted by xta at August 29, 2005 2:29 PM | TrackBack
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if I wasn't ragged out after one of *those* mondays, i'd be heading over RIGHT NOW.

Posted by: pinky at August 29, 2005 6:37 PM

I would love to come......it's just such a long drive.

Posted by: Gidge at August 29, 2005 9:02 PM

if you must have swimsuit-clad gals around without me, take pictures!

net access not good here, can't telnet to email, currently borrowing mom's webtv

hi to everyone i didn't phone. this means you, non--------------christas

hyphen key stuck d'oh

Posted by: ray away ubinger at August 29, 2005 10:29 PM

Swimming under the stars sounds lovely! Cat-care is a pain in the ass

Posted by: Marianne at August 30, 2005 9:04 AM
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